Friday, July 4, 2014

Six of Wands - Success


The Six of Wands is a heady kind of card. It is about triumph, recognition and validation from others. You are rewarded for all your effort and hard work This card is very satisfying on an individual basis, because it heralds validation for perhaps some kind of creative work that one has achieved. However, it is important to remain humble, to keep you feet firmly planted on the ground, and know that there is still work ahead.

Success never comes without hard work, and if it does, it's often not appreciated particularly if it's given on a sliver platter. I have seen this on more than one occasion, where individuals take advantage of another's generosity, or their new found windfall is taken for granted. I think the reason for this behaviour can be partly attributed to human nature, however I do believe there are two kinds of people in life, those who give, and those who take. When I think about success I ask myself, what will my legacy be when I leave this mortal coil?


The Six of Wands really makes me contemplate what happiness and success mean. Life does not come with a manual for success. Many define it monetarily, and they follow this path, pursuing material richness, as opposed to inner treasures and gifts. Many do not simply perceive happiness as the thing that makes you successful.

 I have no desire to be wealthy, but like most folks would not choose poverty either. If we believe the meaning of success is happiness, then I think we can choose that for ourselves. But as Abraham Maslow' s hierarchy of needs indicates, we need to have the basics covered, such a food and shelter, before we can move forward in our pursuit of that elusive bird of happiness and on to self-actualization.




2 comments:

Ellen said...

Your posts always give me so much to think about. For me success is something from within. People can shower me with compliments but if I don't feel successful they don't resonate with me. I am sure you've experienced this with e.g. you art too. And then there is that fragile balance between being proud and being humble. Both annoying when exaggerated, So again a lot to think about
Hugs

Catherine Meyers said...

Thank you so much Ellen, Your comments sure are so encouraging. Yes no one likes a self absorbed person or braggart. Similarly it is disconcerting to see another always belittling themselves. Yes once again balance is the best.